Sexless Marriage: Definition Clinically, it's six months or more with no sex. I define it as wives, checking sex off the to-do list. She takes pity on you and does it to prevent, or stop, you from shutting down or ditching on your responsibilities. She manages more of your emotions when she does it to stop the long talks and lectures about why she should want you. She does it in fear, knowing doing what she doesn't want to do… Is better than the pain you'll inflict with your anger or rage. This